Dark Gathering 2019 Part 1

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When it’s the 26th October and a Saturday before Samhain (Halloween) so that can mean only one thing! It’s #DarkGathering time at Boscastle.

The All Hallows Gathering, or Dark Gathering as it is most commonly known, is celebrated on the Saturday before Halloween each year. This conveniently falls upon the half-term holiday so it enables families and children to attend which adds to the all important theme of ancestors at this time of year.

It is basically a seasonal festival with dynamic performances from Morris dancers, musicians and the all important meeting of the Welsh Mari Lwyds with our Cornish Oss, Penkevyll marking the end of Summer and the beginning of Winter. The main venue of these performances is outside the famous Museum of Witchcraft & Magic in the pretty village of Boscastle, Cornwall.

And we are going!! All booked into a cottage, so we headed down on the Friday 25th to get all the travelling done, before the event day. Staying at Bodmin in a cottage called the Nest.And what a cosy romantic nest this is. A perfect getaway for us newly empty nesters. We are definitely finding our feet with being a couple with no responsibilities anymore.Friday is arrival day and first up is King Arthur’s Hall. It’s raining and we look bedraggled but loving life.Rain was terrible,but we walked anyways to kill time before check in. Looking for the remains of a rectangle ruin, claimed to be King Arthur’s hall. It was boggy underfoot, not signposted at all. And much further than I thought, but we found it, after walking through the gatekeeper cows, that admittedly terrified me.Thankfully hoseseasons let us check in hours early though. As after this walk we were drenched.Saturday arrived, I adorned as many clothes as possible, as rain was horrendously bad. Packed spare clothes too, armed with a lantern for later, we headed to Boscastle.The festivities start at 12pm with storytelling, so while that was on we did some walking around valenicy valley which sadly was flooded, so off to the coastal route to stroll before the dancing begins.At 3pm the crews gather to watch the groups of Morris dancers.Braving the cold and wind while they dance away.Once the dancing is over, there’s a quick opportunity for us to grab some snacks and drinks, I also change my clothes and grab gloves.When we return, it’s dark now, lanterns lit and the procession begins, the mood is more sombre the beat slower.

The real reason we are here has begun. Remembering lost loved ones, being grateful and blessed for all we have, while honouring those that have passed.It’s a deeply emotive time, a beautiful ritual, calling on ancestors to be with us. I was greatly moved and highly emotional , what a reflective thought provoking event.

And honestly I couldn’t video or photograph it, as it felt disrespectful to do so.When it finished and we drove home, the tone of the procession and ancestors honouring stayed with us for hours afterwards. I believe this will be our new tradition to do each year. Already planning next year’s.

Week 41 +42 Post #HipReplacement

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This week has been full on, coming back from camping, and unpacking and washing everything.

Then re-packing again for a romantic getaway to Boscastle, it’s for the #DarkGathering which happens the Saturday before Samhain (Halloween) so a cottage is booked and I can’t wait.

But in my haste I’ve bent forwards again to pick a mirror off the floor, and the hip did/does a weird squelchy feeling, it is a fast reminder not to do it, it is the oddest feeling and I feel sick when it happens.

I’ve googled it and I can’t find anything about this sensation. I will keep an eye on it, rest while I can, and vow never to bend like that again!!

Glastonbury #Faeryfair 2019 Part Three

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The last 2 days have gone in a blur, and the hand is coping well, I’ve even started thinking the steroid has worked in the left hand. And hip is coping too.

Camping is more enjoyable now my hip is replaced, but I learnt the hard way about leaning forward in the camp chair. Do NOT do that ever ever ever!! Ouchies.

Like this, never do it with a hip replacement, I have no restrictions from surgeon, but I think my body has set its own!!

So it’s up and at them again, off to the event. We heard from others that the vendors had complained about Jasmines queue, so we had to queue until doors opened, walk through then queue out the other side, so we didn’t block any stalls.

Thanks to Ian and Kelly for getting a photo of me and Hubby and Ian. The queues were less busy than Saturday,and we got some gorgeous postcards and even Disney ones too.

This time we had some noodles to eat, so we cooked them in the back of the car, with coffee to drink we were sorted, and getting ready to explore Glastonbury.

With that done it was time to head back for our last night in the tent, how has it gone so fast?? We’ve had times we’ve been chilly, but wrapped up and with our heater we’ve been lucky.

So many many things to see and explore in Glastonbury, there is never enough time it seems.

Glastonbury #FaeryFair 2019 Part Two

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Saturday is event day, so up early to see what the day holds. Have to be at the event by 10.30am so we got there at 10am.

Getting there to queue as we are wanting the exclusive Sparkling pink rose fairy pin made by Jasmine Becket Griffith

Shy as ever I didn’t really get any photos, I kick myself for it now of course. Met some twitchlings (other Jasmine fans that also watch Jasmine paint on twitch) which was lovely.

We bought a Day of the Dead bag, I love the detail in her dress. And bought a calendar, as it’s a perfect way to have 12 pictures. Of course we got the calendar signed in December for Richards birthday.

We ate fish and chips in the car, to shield ourselves from the chilly wind, and had a drink or two. Awaiting the zombie releases!! Spooky szn has started.

Everyone was in good spirits, and it was nice to see so many out to support the children’s charity.

We left with full bellies and sore cheeks from laughing so much. What an epic day.

Glastonbury #FaeryFair October 2019 Part One

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It is my favourite event to go to, a #KarenKay event. A Faery Fair set in Glastonbury, and this time it’s a 2 day event, with my favourite artist #JasmineBecketGriffith showcasing her artwork once again.It is also celebrating 10yrs since it’s started, so I think all the vendors that make this event what it is, are going to feel pretty special about it too.Setting off on the Friday at the crack of dawn, it should be a giggle. Camping at a nearby (25 minutes drive out) campsite that has electric hook up and even an indoor pool. We went there last year, so it’s not new to us.Cappuccino made, pumpkin spice added, I’m feeling all autumnal and halloweeny. Side note (ewww my pumpkin spice syrup was awful, even know same make as usual)

Stopped off at Avebury, to walk the stones, feel the energies and have a picnic too.Gentle strolls to break up the day, before we continue off to the campsite in Glastonbury.Recreated some old photos of the first time we came to Avebury, back when we had 4 small daughters in tow.

Tent up, all snuggled up and now for first night tea, a grand fry up, just what is needed after a long long day of travelling and setting up.

Check out all the space, we use to use this for all of us, from 6 people to 2. It was nice to have space to spread things out too.

Some beers and giggles and connect four finished off our first night. Tomorrow up early to go to the #FaeryFair

4 weeks post #SteroidInjection

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After a weekend away camping, and using the hand as much as I possibly needed, dare I say it…. It’s actually feeling like it’s improving!!

Can’t quite believe I’m saying it after how awful and how painful it was, and has been in this lead up to 4 weeks. It’s ached, throbbed and been like lighting at times, but now it finally seems to of settled down.

The grinding noise is still loud and audible to others, so I have to be careful not to grind it.

Tested it over the weekend with a lot of walking stick holding, and using it a lot while camping. Even being in the cold weather doesn’t seem to of affected too much. Ached occasionally, but seemed to pass reasonably quickly and it wasn’t a harsh ache either.

Wow I’m almost thinking it was worth the agony!! Can I really be saying that? I do wonder how long will this last?

Now the other side is beginning to ache, and pinch like the other did before the injection. I know I have to get this one done next month or December latest.

It will be nice to have it feeling good by the time my Granddaughter is bon in December.

October #LookFantasticBox

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This month I thought may have been themed for Halloween, but it’s not. It is in a gorgeous deep purple box though, which makes it feel a bit witchy for me!

Inside you have

#LookGoodFeelBetter Angled Blending Brush worth £8.99 create your complete eyeshadow with a blended diffused look.

#OhK! Chok Chok Holographic Fibre Face Mask worth £10.00 charged with citrus oils and skin boosting ascorbic acid, leaving skin bright and dewy.

#Eos Lip Balm in Shimmer Coral worth £6.50 a deep hydrating lip balm with a subtle tint and shimmer, infused with Shea butter, jojoba oil and vitamin e.

#TheBalm Foiled Again is the one I got, worth £8.00 it’s an intensely pigmented multi purpose shadows, very buttery soft too.

#Polaar The Genuine Lapland Hand Cream worth £9.90 I’ve tried the day cream which I loved, so I’m eager to try this out. Much needed it this weather. Rich in artic berries, it should be good.

And last but not least #WetBrush Detangler worth £7.99 a much needed tool with my hair, which is hellish. Helps to detangle without stretching and breaking the hair.

A bloody good box this month for me, glad there was no cleansers and fillers like eyeliners. As I have more than enough of those. But instead actual useful tools and products to use.

40 Weeks Post #HipReplacement

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It’s been a long slog, so many many ups and equally so so many downs too.

But I don’t regret it, not for a second. It’s just definitely a longer road for me than for some others, which is sad. But living with this new reality is far far better than pre op status.

This week I actually STILL didn’t do at home physio, and you know why?? Because that last session 8 days ago, killed me off for 6 of those days, totally and completely. I literally could not move for days, the pain and ache were incredible.

However now I’m on the healed side of it, I feel am actually getting stronger. I do trust that leg (can’t say the same for the other one though, not like this one)

Often reminded it’s replaced when I go to shave my legs, and it doesn’t cooperate like I want it too. Or I go to lift it in some manner, so it still doesn’t like certain things.

I feel strong for me, but maybe my strong is always going to be someone’s weak? As I still struggle with stamina, and form. And let’s not forget arthritis is always going to hurt, as is Ehlers Danlos Syndrome.

So I think it’s as good as it’s going to get? And it’s time to get this other side done in the next year or so. So I have a matching pair.

I see the consultant in February so I hope he will be pleased with my progress so far, and I often wonder if it will continue to improve over the next year, like you do with triple pelvic surgeries.

3 Weeks Post #SteroidInjection

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I’ve had a discussion with my MiCats Doctor, and we have to officially give the steroid at least 4 weeks to work, before I can say it hasn’t worked.

But in my mind I was already convinced, at 2 weeks it hadn’t worked, as I’d been using ibuprofen gel, and I was back on the splints too.

Now I’m at 3 Weeks the nagging pain seems to have settled. Though holding my walking stick, or picking up cups still ache the hand, but a least it’s not that fiery hot pain.

If it doesn’t work:

I have only one pain relieving option left open to me and that’s surgery. Though with a hip replacement looming, the Doctor feels that has to come first. So delaying as much as possible is my only option.

Also what if surgery makes me worse? I lose strength? It’s not like my hip surgeries have been immensely successful over the last decade. It’s only now I’m seeing some success, with more to come. So really it’s not a viable option.

But on the flip side it’s only going to get worse, harder to use, and lose strength anyway, and the need to wear splints. It’s a no win situation.

Family wise I don’t think they can cope with more surgery either, and is it really fair to put them through more, when I know the other hip replacement is around the corner anyway??

And you know what’s worse? I know I have to do the other hand, it’s already getting worse, since I got this hand done. Can I really face that awful pain, and almost passing out again? Not sure I can yet!

Bare Minerals x Glossybox

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Since I bought the #BareMinerals concealer, I have wanted to buy more of the range. But they are pricey compared to my usual. So seeing this collaboration with Glossybox I knew it was my chance to try them out at an affordable price.

I’m not a glossybox subscriber so I bought this limited edition at £30 as a one off price.

#Skinlongevity Vital Power Serum it’s a deluxe mini 7.5ml and worth £7.20 it’s infused with Japanese long life herb extracts to help reduce the fine lines and wrinkles, while hydrating and nourishing skin.

#Lashtopia Mega Volume Mineral Based Mascara it’s a deluxe mini 6.5ml and worth £11.40 I really wanted this, though I felt it’s out of place in a skin based box. It’s not clumpy and feels light weight. Not as good as my Benefit Bang Mascara but easier to remove.

#Barepro Glow Highlighter Drops a full sized product and worth £23.00 with light reflecting mineral pearls these are perfect added to your foundation or moisturizer for a dewy glow. Or be daring and add direct onto cheekbones and browbones.

#Endless Summer Bronzer a deluxe mini 3.8g worth £9.90 a newly launched matte bronzing powder. Wonder if it will top my Hoola? Add instant warmth while hiding imperfections and reducing pores.

#Primetime Foundation Primer a full sized product and worth £25 this will help make your base last o much longer, with vitamin C and e added and packed with antioxidants. Smooth out fine lines, wrinkles and remove excess oil.

I loved this box and yes it’s a great introduction to #BareMinerals but I feel the mascara was out of place, instead I would of preferred a foundation, or cc cream to really create a solid base. But that’s just my opinion.